If your trust foundations are rocky, your ability to trust others may be inconsistent and unstable.
In the most unstable egos, that shift shows up as extreme physical violence and/or verbal abuse. It's the switch from kindness to coldness or calmness to violent outbursts. that wears the controlled one, down. And make no mistake it is a deliberate wearing down.
How can we make leaving feel like a blessing rather than a rejection? Well, there are several ways and I've listed a few of them here.
Intensity can be mistaken for feelings of connection because the force is so strong. Yet intensity doesn't necessarily lead to intimacy or even to real pleasure.
We all handle rejection differently. For some of us, it appears to slide off us, like water off a duck's back. For others, rejection can be held onto like the world's longest grudge. How then do we deal with rejection when it comes to our business relationships?